What makes a healthy relationship? Tell us what gets a LIKE or what makes you say YIKES!
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It's super easy! Read each scenario then choose the reaction below that best fits your feelings about each scenario.
Like!
Why NOT.
Meh...
Come Again?
Yikes!
Scenario #1
Brittany was telling her best friend Candace about her experience at the mall
she was followed around by a man and whistled at. It made her feel scared and creeped out.
Candace then commented saying that it was probably because of the clothes Brittany was wearing.
she was followed around by a man and whistled at. It made her feel scared and creeped out.
Candace then commented saying that it was probably because of the clothes Brittany was wearing.
You Said:
Like!
Be Sure2Know:
You should be more focused on the actions of the man following your friend rather than what your best friend was wearing. This is considered a form of victim blaming and slut-shaming.
You Said:
Why NOT.
Be Sure2Know:
You should be more focused on the actions of the man following your friend rather than what your best friend was wearing. This is considered a form of victim blaming and slut-shaming.
You Said:
Meh...
Be Sure2Know:
You should be more focused on the actions of the man following your friend rather than what your best friend was wearing. This is considered a form of victim blaming and slut-shaming.
You Said:
Come Again?
Be Sure2Know:
You should be more focused on the actions of the man following your friend rather than what your best friend was wearing. This is considered a form of victim blaming and slut-shaming.
You Said:
Yikes!
Be Sure2Know:
You should be more focused on the actions of the man following your friend rather than what your best friend was wearing. This is considered a form of victim blaming and slut-shaming.
Scenario #2
Your friend Amanda, who you have known for your whole life, wants to be called Andy
and go by they/them pronouns. You have only known them as Amanda and used she/her pronouns.
You decide to call them Amanda, because you don't want to change your perspective of them.
and go by they/them pronouns. You have only known them as Amanda and used she/her pronouns.
You decide to call them Amanda, because you don't want to change your perspective of them.
You Said:
Like!
Be Sure2Know:
Itâs important to respect your friends' identity by calling them what they tell you.
Not doing so, is a form of transphobia. Real friends support each other through their individual growth.
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Not doing so, is a form of transphobia. Real friends support each other through their individual growth.
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You Said:
Why NOT.
Be Sure2Know:
Itâs important to respect your friends' identity by calling them what they tell you.
Not doing so, is a form of transphobia. Real friends support each other through their individual growth.
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Not doing so, is a form of transphobia. Real friends support each other through their individual growth.
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You Said:
Meh...
Be Sure2Know:
Itâs important to respect your friends' identity by calling them what they tell you.
Not doing so, is a form of transphobia. Real friends support each other through their individual growth.
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Not doing so, is a form of transphobia. Real friends support each other through their individual growth.
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You Said:
Come Again?
Be Sure2Know:
Itâs important to respect your friends' identity by calling them what they tell you.
Not doing so, is a form of transphobia. Real friends support each other through their individual growth.
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Not doing so, is a form of transphobia. Real friends support each other through their individual growth.
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You Said:
Yikes!
Be Sure2Know:
Itâs important to respect your friends' identity by calling them what they tell you.
Not doing so, is a form of transphobia. Real friends support each other through their individual growth.
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Not doing so, is a form of transphobia. Real friends support each other through their individual growth.
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Scenario #3
Riley's boyfriend doesn't like it when she is with her friends because they are guys.
He says that if she continues to hang out with them, he'll break up with her.
He says that if she continues to hang out with them, he'll break up with her.
You Said:
Like!
Be Sure2Know:
Itâs good to have continued conversations about your values and boundaries with your partners.
Limiting your partnersâ friend group and using ultimatums is controlling. Those are unhealthy behaviors.
Limiting your partnersâ friend group and using ultimatums is controlling. Those are unhealthy behaviors.
You Said:
Why NOT.
Be Sure2Know:
Itâs good to have continued conversations about your values and boundaries with your partners.
Limiting your partnersâ friend group and using ultimatums is controlling. Those are unhealthy behaviors.
Limiting your partnersâ friend group and using ultimatums is controlling. Those are unhealthy behaviors.
You Said:
Meh...
Be Sure2Know:
Itâs good to have continued conversations about your values and boundaries with your partners.
Limiting your partnersâ friend group and using ultimatums is controlling. Those are unhealthy behaviors.
Limiting your partnersâ friend group and using ultimatums is controlling. Those are unhealthy behaviors.
You Said:
Come Again?
Be Sure2Know:
Itâs good to have continued conversations about your values and boundaries with your partners.
Limiting your partnersâ friend group and using ultimatums is controlling. Those are unhealthy behaviors.
Limiting your partnersâ friend group and using ultimatums is controlling. Those are unhealthy behaviors.
You Said:
Yikes!
Be Sure2Know:
Itâs good to have continued conversations about your values and boundaries with your partners.
Limiting your partnersâ friend group and using ultimatums is controlling. Those are unhealthy behaviors.
Limiting your partnersâ friend group and using ultimatums is controlling. Those are unhealthy behaviors.
Scenario #4
Your dating partner does not understand open relationships.
You spend time talking with them about what that looks like to you
and how the relationship would work.
You spend time talking with them about what that looks like to you
and how the relationship would work.
You Said:
Like!
Be Sure2Know:
Having a space to openly communicate about your expectations and
needs in a relationship is key. This allows you to make healthy decisions together that you both feel good about.
needs in a relationship is key. This allows you to make healthy decisions together that you both feel good about.
You Said:
Why NOT.
Be Sure2Know:
Having a space to openly communicate about your expectations and
needs in a relationship is key. This allows you to make healthy decisions together that you both feel good about.
needs in a relationship is key. This allows you to make healthy decisions together that you both feel good about.
You Said:
Meh...
Be Sure2Know:
Having a space to openly communicate about your expectations and
needs in a relationship is key. This allows you to make healthy decisions together that you both feel good about.
needs in a relationship is key. This allows you to make healthy decisions together that you both feel good about.
You Said:
Come Again?
Be Sure2Know:
Having a space to openly communicate about your expectations and
needs in a relationship is key. This allows you to make healthy decisions together that you both feel good about.
needs in a relationship is key. This allows you to make healthy decisions together that you both feel good about.
You Said:
Yikes!
Be Sure2Know:
Having a space to openly communicate about your expectations and
needs in a relationship is key. This allows you to make healthy decisions together that you both feel good about.
needs in a relationship is key. This allows you to make healthy decisions together that you both feel good about.
Scenario #5
Joeyâs best friend Ethan tells Joey that if he does not be more honest with people
about his sexual identity that Ethan will out Joey to everyone so he can live his truth.
about his sexual identity that Ethan will out Joey to everyone so he can live his truth.
You Said:
Like!
Be Sure2Know:
Wanting to support your friend is awesome, but you should do that on their terms.
Forcing a friend to share their identity with everyone or outing them could put them in dangerous situations.
Forcing a friend to share their identity with everyone or outing them could put them in dangerous situations.
You Said:
Why NOT.
Be Sure2Know:
Wanting to support your friend is awesome, but you should do that on their terms.
Forcing a friend to share their identity with everyone or outing them could put them in dangerous situations.
Forcing a friend to share their identity with everyone or outing them could put them in dangerous situations.
You Said:
Meh...
Be Sure2Know:
Wanting to support your friend is awesome, but you should do that on their terms.
Forcing a friend to share their identity with everyone or outing them could put them in dangerous situations.
Forcing a friend to share their identity with everyone or outing them could put them in dangerous situations.
You Said:
Come Again?
Be Sure2Know:
Wanting to support your friend is awesome, but you should do that on their terms.
Forcing a friend to share their identity with everyone or outing them could put them in dangerous situations.
Forcing a friend to share their identity with everyone or outing them could put them in dangerous situations.
You Said:
Yikes!
Be Sure2Know:
Wanting to support your friend is awesome, but you should do that on their terms.
Forcing a friend to share their identity with everyone or outing them could put them in dangerous situations.
Forcing a friend to share their identity with everyone or outing them could put them in dangerous situations.
Scenario #6
Your dad forces your mom to stay home and watch the kids, while he goes to work.
Your mom is given a specific amount of money to spend strictly on food for the family.
Your mom is given a specific amount of money to spend strictly on food for the family.
You Said:
Like!
Be Sure2Know:
Nothing is wrong with being a stay at home mom but controlling someoneâs
ability to earn/spend money is a form of financial abuse. No matter the family dynamic
there should be opportunities for both partners to benefit from financial arrangements.
ability to earn/spend money is a form of financial abuse. No matter the family dynamic
there should be opportunities for both partners to benefit from financial arrangements.
You Said:
Why NOT.
Be Sure2Know:
Nothing is wrong with being a stay at home mom but controlling someoneâs
ability to earn/spend money is a form of financial abuse. No matter the family dynamic
there should be opportunities for both partners to benefit from financial arrangements.
ability to earn/spend money is a form of financial abuse. No matter the family dynamic
there should be opportunities for both partners to benefit from financial arrangements.
You Said:
Meh...
Be Sure2Know:
Nothing is wrong with being a stay at home mom but controlling someoneâs
ability to earn/spend money is a form of financial abuse. No matter the family dynamic
there should be opportunities for both partners to benefit from financial arrangements.
ability to earn/spend money is a form of financial abuse. No matter the family dynamic
there should be opportunities for both partners to benefit from financial arrangements.
You Said:
Come Again?
Be Sure2Know:
Nothing is wrong with being a stay at home mom but controlling someoneâs
ability to earn/spend money is a form of financial abuse. No matter the family dynamic
there should be opportunities for both partners to benefit from financial arrangements.
ability to earn/spend money is a form of financial abuse. No matter the family dynamic
there should be opportunities for both partners to benefit from financial arrangements.
You Said:
Yikes!
Be Sure2Know:
Nothing is wrong with being a stay at home mom but controlling someoneâs
ability to earn/spend money is a form of financial abuse. No matter the family dynamic
there should be opportunities for both partners to benefit from financial arrangements.
ability to earn/spend money is a form of financial abuse. No matter the family dynamic
there should be opportunities for both partners to benefit from financial arrangements.
Scenario #7
My partner and I have been dating for over a month and they asked me for nude photos
as an anniversary gift. I sent them some nude photos but I didnât really want to.
as an anniversary gift. I sent them some nude photos but I didnât really want to.
You Said:
Like!
Be Sure2Know:
If it doesnât feel right, trust yourself and have the courage to communicate your values.
This might mean you risk your relationship but at least you can be proud you reinforced your boundaries.
This might mean you risk your relationship but at least you can be proud you reinforced your boundaries.
You Said:
Why NOT.
Be Sure2Know:
If it doesnât feel right, trust yourself and have the courage to communicate your values.
This might mean you risk your relationship but at least you can be proud you reinforced your boundaries.
This might mean you risk your relationship but at least you can be proud you reinforced your boundaries.
You Said:
Meh...
Be Sure2Know:
If it doesnât feel right, trust yourself and have the courage to communicate your values.
This might mean you risk your relationship but at least you can be proud you reinforced your boundaries.
This might mean you risk your relationship but at least you can be proud you reinforced your boundaries.
You Said:
Come Again?
Be Sure2Know:
If it doesnât feel right, trust yourself and have the courage to communicate your values.
This might mean you risk your relationship but at least you can be proud you reinforced your boundaries.
This might mean you risk your relationship but at least you can be proud you reinforced your boundaries.
You Said:
Yikes!
Be Sure2Know:
If it doesnât feel right, trust yourself and have the courage to communicate your values.
This might mean you risk your relationship but at least you can be proud you reinforced your boundaries.
This might mean you risk your relationship but at least you can be proud you reinforced your boundaries.
Scenario #8
Peng went to hangout with his friends. His girlfriend Synala told him to video chat
with her now so she can see whoâs all there and what they are doing.
with her now so she can see whoâs all there and what they are doing.
You Said:
Like!
Be Sure2Know:
While checking in with each other is understandable expecting them to share every moment
about what theyâre doing and with who isnât. Trust is needed in a relationship.
about what theyâre doing and with who isnât. Trust is needed in a relationship.
You Said:
Why NOT.
Be Sure2Know:
While checking in with each other is understandable expecting them to share every moment
about what theyâre doing and with who isnât. Trust is needed in a relationship.
about what theyâre doing and with who isnât. Trust is needed in a relationship.
You Said:
Meh...
Be Sure2Know:
While checking in with each other is understandable expecting them to share every moment
about what theyâre doing and with who isnât. Trust is needed in a relationship.
about what theyâre doing and with who isnât. Trust is needed in a relationship.
You Said:
Come Again?
Be Sure2Know:
While checking in with each other is understandable expecting them to share every moment
about what theyâre doing and with who isnât. Trust is needed in a relationship.
about what theyâre doing and with who isnât. Trust is needed in a relationship.
You Said:
Yikes!
Be Sure2Know:
While checking in with each other is understandable expecting them to share every moment
about what theyâre doing and with who isnât. Trust is needed in a relationship.
about what theyâre doing and with who isnât. Trust is needed in a relationship.
Scenario #9
Darya blocks a lot of their male friends on social media shortly after dating their new partner Kai
because they keep sending Darya inappropriate comments and pictures.
because they keep sending Darya inappropriate comments and pictures.
You Said:
Like!
Be Sure2Know:
While you can block friends on social media to hopefully prevent it, you and your partner should
understand that itâs not your fault for receiving inappropriate comments and pictures.
understand that itâs not your fault for receiving inappropriate comments and pictures.
You Said:
Why NOT.
Be Sure2Know:
While you can block friends on social media to hopefully prevent it, you and your partner should
understand that itâs not your fault for receiving inappropriate comments and pictures.
understand that itâs not your fault for receiving inappropriate comments and pictures.
You Said:
Meh...
Be Sure2Know:
While you can block friends on social media to hopefully prevent it, you and your partner should
understand that itâs not your fault for receiving inappropriate comments and pictures.
understand that itâs not your fault for receiving inappropriate comments and pictures.
You Said:
Come Again?
Be Sure2Know:
While you can block friends on social media to hopefully prevent it, you and your partner should
understand that itâs not your fault for receiving inappropriate comments and pictures.
understand that itâs not your fault for receiving inappropriate comments and pictures.
You Said:
Yikes!
Be Sure2Know:
While you can block friends on social media to hopefully prevent it, you and your partner should
understand that itâs not your fault for receiving inappropriate comments and pictures.
understand that itâs not your fault for receiving inappropriate comments and pictures.
Scenario #10
After a small fight, Rodrigo cuts off all communication with Melanie. After a few months he suddenly
starts messaging her flirtatiously. He apologized for disappearing but refuses to talk about
the issue any further and wants to keep the conversation fun.
starts messaging her flirtatiously. He apologized for disappearing but refuses to talk about
the issue any further and wants to keep the conversation fun.
You Said:
Like!
Be Sure2Know:
You may be upset at your partner right now, but cutting them off completely wonât fix the
problems. Communicate how you feel and hold yourself accountable for the harm you may have caused.
problems. Communicate how you feel and hold yourself accountable for the harm you may have caused.
You Said:
Why NOT.
Be Sure2Know:
You may be upset at your partner right now, but cutting them off completely wonât fix the
problems. Communicate how you feel and hold yourself accountable for the harm you may have caused.
problems. Communicate how you feel and hold yourself accountable for the harm you may have caused.
You Said:
Meh...
Be Sure2Know:
You may be upset at your partner right now, but cutting them off completely wonât fix the
problems. Communicate how you feel and hold yourself accountable for the harm you may have caused.
problems. Communicate how you feel and hold yourself accountable for the harm you may have caused.
You Said:
Come Again?
Be Sure2Know:
You may be upset at your partner right now, but cutting them off completely wonât fix the
problems. Communicate how you feel and hold yourself accountable for the harm you may have caused.
problems. Communicate how you feel and hold yourself accountable for the harm you may have caused.
You Said:
Yikes!
Be Sure2Know:
You may be upset at your partner right now, but cutting them off completely wonât fix the
problems. Communicate how you feel and hold yourself accountable for the harm you may have caused.
problems. Communicate how you feel and hold yourself accountable for the harm you may have caused.
Scenario #11
Jadenâs boyfriend doesn't like it when heâs with his friends because they say racist things.
He says that if Jaden continues to hang out with them, they'll need to break up.
He says that if Jaden continues to hang out with them, they'll need to break up.
You Said:
Like!
Be Sure2Know:
In a relationship you need to express and share your values. You need to
recognize when it is safe to cut those people out of our lives that donât respect
the values that are important to you.
recognize when it is safe to cut those people out of our lives that donât respect
the values that are important to you.
You Said:
Why NOT.
Be Sure2Know:
In a relationship you need to express and share your values. You need to
recognize when it is safe to cut those people out of our lives that donât respect
the values that are important to you.
recognize when it is safe to cut those people out of our lives that donât respect
the values that are important to you.
You Said:
Meh...
Be Sure2Know:
In a relationship you need to express and share your values. You need to
recognize when it is safe to cut those people out of our lives that donât respect
the values that are important to you.
recognize when it is safe to cut those people out of our lives that donât respect
the values that are important to you.
You Said:
Come Again?
Be Sure2Know:
In a relationship you need to express and share your values. You need to
recognize when it is safe to cut those people out of our lives that donât respect
the values that are important to you.
recognize when it is safe to cut those people out of our lives that donât respect
the values that are important to you.
You Said:
Yikes!
Be Sure2Know:
In a relationship you need to express and share your values. You need to
recognize when it is safe to cut those people out of our lives that donât respect
the values that are important to you.
recognize when it is safe to cut those people out of our lives that donât respect
the values that are important to you.
Scenario #12
Joeyâs parents believe he should be more honest with his friends and the rest of the family about them being trans.
You Said:
Like!
Be Sure2Know:
If you arenât ready to come out to others yet, that is okay. Youâre not being dishonest for not sharing every detail about your gender identity. You are valid.â
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You Said:
Why NOT.
Be Sure2Know:
If you arenât ready to come out to others yet, that is okay. Youâre not being dishonest for not sharing every detail about your gender identity. You are valid.â
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You Said:
Meh...
Be Sure2Know:
If you arenât ready to come out to others yet, that is okay. Youâre not being dishonest for not sharing every detail about your gender identity. You are valid.â
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You Said:
Come Again?
Be Sure2Know:
If you arenât ready to come out to others yet, that is okay. Youâre not being dishonest for not sharing every detail about your gender identity. You are valid.â
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You Said:
Yikes!
Be Sure2Know:
If you arenât ready to come out to others yet, that is okay. Youâre not being dishonest for not sharing every detail about your gender identity. You are valid.â
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Completed!
Now dare your friends to know more about healthy relationships.